This article draws on 20 qualitative interviews with women between 60 and 78 years of age who migrated from Turkey to Sweden some 40 years ago. It focuses on how they understand, reproduce and challenge both pre- and post-migration gender norms. By analysing the narratives of the 20 women, we investigate how they negotiate work, care and housework with their partners over the course of their lives. Furthermore, we examine how the Turkish diaspora in Sweden influences the ways the interviewed women do and redo gender. The findings show that the interviewed women used implicit and explicit negotiations to change, reconstruct and renegotiate gender norms. Doing and redoing gender is a central aspect of these negotiations, since the interviewed women are ambivalent about gender norms. The conclusion is that the women had one foot in traditional gender norms by “knowing their places” but had adapted to more egalitarian norms over the years.